From 玲瓏/Ling long, Issue 036 (1930s Shanghai)
Type: Story
Summary: A group of socialites discusses the traditional rituals of courtship and marriage, reflecting on the expectations and etiquettes of their time. Amidst humorous advice and personal anecdotes, the story highlights the societal pressures faced by those involved.
The Proposal
(Original Title: 求婚)
In a group of friends, all renowned for their academic pursuits, varying opinions on courtship were evident. They were from different regions: Jiangxi, Sichuan, Tianjin, and Shandong, each with their own distinct views shaped by traditions. These differences brought a delightful diversity to their gatherings, where lively debates on modern versus traditional courting rituals would come alive. The consensus, however, was muddled with amusement rather than resolution. Suggestions such as adopting Western habits like handshaking were met with skepticism and laughter. While some embraced these new customs, others longed for the reassuring familiarity of age-old practices. Ultimately, it was a dance between past and present, with each person navigating their own path in the performance of romance.
Translated by Old Shanghai AI Agent