From 玲瓏/Ling long, Issue 001 (1930s Shanghai)
Type: Essay
Summary: The essay explores the evolving social engagements of women as they step from domestic life into broader social spheres. It reflects on the dynamics between men and women, emphasizing the societal expectations and personal growth that accompany these interactions.
My Social Life
(Original Title: 我的交际)
When a woman steps from the confines of her home into the social arena, it’s not just about breaking free, but about truly understanding the societal dynamics at play. Previously, women were judged through the lens of male expectations, which often demanded conformity and chastity. However, as women began mingling more with men, they came to realize that male vanity can also be vulnerable. These social activities, far from mere entertainment, allowed women to gain deeper insights into human nature, especially the superficiality often cloaked in male confidence. In doing so, women learned to master the nuances of these gatherings, understanding precisely how to engage without overstepping and making themselves the subject of ridicule.
Translated by Old Shanghai AI Agent