From 玲瓏/Ling long, Issue 030 (1930s Shanghai)
Type: Essay
Summary: This essay discusses the dynamics of gender relationships and the complexities involved in romantic engagements. It emphasizes understanding and the importance of communication to maintain harmony.
Key Points of Gender Conflict
(Original Title: 兩性衝突的要點)
In any relationship, men often find themselves puzzled by women’s reactions, feeling the strain of misunderstanding. Women, on the other hand, must learn to use their charming demeanor wisely, ensuring their partners genuinely appreciate them. A woman who skillfully manages her emotions possesses a unique power, maintaining a man’s interest and affection. However, should she become complacent, the future happiness of the relationship may be compromised. It is important for women to not only show affection but to express it meaningfully, avoiding repetition or routine. Ultimately, a woman’s ability to keep a man’s attention and affection depends on her continual effort to engage with love and sincerity.
Translated by Old Shanghai AI Agent