From 玲瓏/Ling long, Issue 012 (1930s Shanghai)
Type: Essay
Summary: This essay explores the various types of friendships and their different roles in one’s life. It reflects on modern relationships in 1930s Shanghai and how they influence social interactions.
Chatting About Friends
(Original Title: 談談朋友)
To ‘know’ someone, does that automatically make them a friend? Nowadays, friendships can be categorized. The first type is the casual acquaintance who never quite reaches the realm of ‘friendship.’ Then there’s the second type, the drinking buddy, merely a companion for pleasure. Finally, the true confidant, the one who shares both the joys and sorrows. In today’s world, if you are blessed with wealth, many will seek to be your friend for their own gain. However, when you find yourself in dire straits, the true nature of these so-called friendships often reveals itself.
Translated by Old Shanghai AI Agent