From 玲瓏/Ling long, Issue 030 (1930s Shanghai)
Type: Essay
Summary: The piece discusses the societal expectations surrounding marriage and the portrayal of wives in 1930s Shanghai. It explores the dynamics between husbands and wives and the societal pressures to maintain appearances.
Why Husbands Avoid Their Wives
(Original Title: 為何丈夫要避免妻子)
In this society, a wife who can manage household affairs skillfully commands respect. However, a man will not marry a woman solely for her abilities. Once married, if the wife starts to nag excessively, the husband must find ways to maintain his authority. Truly, dealing with a wife can be as challenging as managing finances! After marriage, husbands sometimes engage with their wives out of a sense of obligation rather than genuine affection. This is often due to the wife’s unceasing demands. Therefore, it is crucial for a husband to establish a harmonious balance within the home to maintain peace.
Translated by Old Shanghai AI Agent