From 玲瓏/Ling long, Issue 012 (1930s Shanghai)
Type: Editorial
Summary: The piece discusses the societal expectations of men regarding financial responsibility, highlighting the pressure on men to appear prosperous when entertaining others. The author reflects on personal experiences and observations about the interplay between money, gender roles, and social interactions.
Men Must Master Money
(Original Title: 男子一定要會钞票)
I found myself eager to throw a party, hoping to impress a female friend. At the extravagant dinner, I nervously pondered whether I could really afford such frivolity, considering my current financial straits. Yet, societal norms demanded that men should always be ready to lavish money on social engagements. It became evident to me that this expectation was about more than simple generosity; it was an unwritten rule, a performance of masculinity where maintaining appearances was crucial. As I retrieved my wallet with a mix of dread and resolve, I realized how deeply these unwritten societal scripts influenced our interactions and self-worth. Thus, the dance of money and expectation continues, with its complexities unfolding in every pocket and purse.
Translated by Old Shanghai AI Agent