[Essay] The Art of Three Kisses

In the realm of romantic exchanges, there are three distinct types of kisses to consider. The first, known as ‘Intense Passion,’ is typically driven by the powerful allure a woman feels toward a man, allowing him to draw near. In this scenario, the woman remains passive—this is the kiss of submission. The second, called ‘Quiet Restraint,’ occurs when both parties embrace subtly, with the woman’s lower lip gently trembling, though not the upper—this represents a cautious approach. Finally, there is ‘Subtle Seduction,’ perhaps the most exquisite form, where a woman’s gaze lingers on her lover and her hand gently brushes his. Such a kiss is delicate yet full of a seductive charm. Based on these categories, the work of Dr. Besarion highlights that even in our current enlightened era, many aspects, including the art of kissing, have evolved. Yet, they remain as elegant as ever. In a time that celebrates formalities, the natural yearning for love inspires women to express affection, while men learn to receive it. The classic text ‘The Perfumed Garden’ accentuated the kiss as an essential aspect of intimacy, and even today, its significance persists. Let us now enjoy the enchanting ‘Lover’s Song.’ ‘Oh, my beloved, your lips are the chambers of honey, your smile, the drizzling sweetness, your kiss, the intoxication of my heart.’