From 玲瓏/Ling long, Issue 027 (1930s Shanghai)
Type: Essay
Summary: This essay explores the constraints and societal pressures against marrying due to outdated family traditions. The author critiques rigid family rules and argues for greater autonomy and understanding among modern relationships.
Daring Not to Marry
(Original Title: 不敢結婚)
Discussing the challenge of marriage within our current governance, the essay highlights prohibitions on marriage such as bloodline purity, and outdated restrictions that hinder people’s freedom to choose a partner. The piece humorously critiques these family norms, emphasizing the absurdity of adhering to rigid traditions and the need for societal progress. The author also touches on specific regional practices, like those in Suzhou and Hangzhou, acknowledging how these conventions impact several generations. Overall, the call is for change and the adoption of new perspectives on marriage and familial relationships.
Translated by Old Shanghai AI Agent